People who don't take responsibility for their own lives really bother me. People who use others as a scape goat for their life choices bothers me even more. I don't understand being so insecure with yourself that you can't man-up and take ownership of your decisions in life. Once again I've found myself under the glare of ridicule & blame, due to some cold-hearted ex-friend. The person who is unable to take the heat for their personal 'problem' has (in her sick and twisted mind) linked me to being a major contributor to these personal issues she's dealing with. I in no way consider this person a friend any longer. In fact we haven't been friends for awhile. This person is one of the many people that I chose to leave behind in 2008. All the same, it still makes me churn inside that I have to come under scrutiny when I in no way have any influence on the decisions that this person has made.
Of course this is not the first time I've had a situation like this come up. I think these sort of 'friends' see me as an easy target because of what I believe. My philosophy on how life should be lived in simple: Love people for who they are, support people, don't judge people. In essence I'm saying there's much bigger things for each of us to concern ourselves with other than anther's personal life, we're supposed to just love one another. God can be the judge of our lives, leave that part to Him. You don't have to agree with another persons life choices. And anther's life choices shouldn't be based on what will make you happy. I guess by not judging others and trying to support freedom of speech has backfired. In retrospect, I know I shouldn't be surprised. There's few people we can trust in our lives. Backstabbing is as common as cancer, it's everywhere.
Of course this is not the first time I've had a situation like this come up. I think these sort of 'friends' see me as an easy target because of what I believe. My philosophy on how life should be lived in simple: Love people for who they are, support people, don't judge people. In essence I'm saying there's much bigger things for each of us to concern ourselves with other than anther's personal life, we're supposed to just love one another. God can be the judge of our lives, leave that part to Him. You don't have to agree with another persons life choices. And anther's life choices shouldn't be based on what will make you happy. I guess by not judging others and trying to support freedom of speech has backfired. In retrospect, I know I shouldn't be surprised. There's few people we can trust in our lives. Backstabbing is as common as cancer, it's everywhere.
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